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Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Last Updated: 30.06.2025 01:26

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.

No country for ugly people…

If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.

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People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.

Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.

I'm looking for an answer from people who consider themselves "Gender Critical", or transphobic, or TERFs, and my question is this - Why would you refuse to use the pronouns someone wants? What does it cost you? Where's the harm?

It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.

BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.

If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.

What are you struggling with in your life? What would you like to have instead?